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Defensiveness is common response to confrontation. What you say may be interpreted incorrectly or it may be taken as an insult. If the other person does become defensive, be patient, and do not take it personally. Contrast and clarify what you are saying, and what you are not saying. Make it clear that it is not a personal attack,
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